When I was 19, I started dating a guy that was 26. I totally fell in love with him, he was my first everything. He was so smart, charming, and such a gentleman…
He wanted to marry me and in the beginning, I actually thought he was the one too but then I discovered that we were not compatible as we had very different personalities. I wasn’t myself sometimes because I was afraid that he would judge me.
After a 2-year relationship, I decided to end it. I knew he wasn’t the one so I didn’t want to waste his or my time. It wasn’t an easy breakup (no break up is easy). But I was myself again. I was 21 when we broke up and haven’t had a serious relationship since then.
Many things happened throughout these 5 years until today: I’ve been focusing on myself by becoming the best version, I moved abroad, I started my own business, and I discovered who I truly am and what I wanted
It’s important to know what you want in your personal and professional life and manifest it. I wrote down in my journal how I wanted my ideal life and partner to be.
If you have a very clear idea of what you want you will attract it. I am proud enough to say that I have my ideal life and with regards to my partner I’m still single but we will find each other one day (or maybe we already have haha).
I encourage you to write down in your journal how you want your ideal life and partner to be.
Love & Light,
Natalia Vidal – Pink But Not Weak
